{"id":5099,"date":"2020-09-14T17:55:04","date_gmt":"2020-09-14T21:55:04","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/desis.osu.edu\/seniorthesis\/?p=5099"},"modified":"2020-09-16T11:26:17","modified_gmt":"2020-09-16T15:26:17","slug":"5099","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/desis.osu.edu\/seniorthesis\/index.php\/2020\/09\/14\/5099\/","title":{"rendered":"A mother and son&#8217;s journey through dementia"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Tony Luciani | <strong>TEDxCambridge&nbsp;<\/strong>|&nbsp;May 2018<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I practiced my newfound camera skills with Mom as portrait model.&nbsp;Through all of this, she talked, and I listened.&nbsp;She&#8217;d tell me about her early childhood and how she was feeling now.&nbsp;We had each other&#8217;s attention.&nbsp;Mom was losing her short-term memory,&nbsp;but was better recalling her younger years.&nbsp;I&#8217;d ask, and she would tell me stories.&nbsp;I listened, and I was her audience.&nbsp;I got ideas.&nbsp;I wrote them down, and I 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want to feel a part of something, anything.&nbsp;It doesn&#8217;t need to be something exceptionally profound that&#8217;s shared &#8212;&nbsp;it could be as simple as walks together.&nbsp;Give them a voice&nbsp;of interaction, participation,&nbsp;and a feeling of belonging.&nbsp;Make the time meaningful.&nbsp;Life, it&#8217;s about wanting to live&nbsp;and not waiting to die.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed-ted wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-ted wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"Tony Luciani: A mother and son&#039;s photographic journey through dementia\" src=\"https:\/\/embed.ted.com\/talks\/tony_luciani_a_mother_and_son_s_photographic_journey_through_dementia\" width=\"696\" height=\"392\" frameborder=\"0\" scrolling=\"no\" webkitAllowFullScreen mozallowfullscreen allowFullScreen><\/iframe>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator\" \/>\n\n\n\n<p><em>In the video, Tony says that what him and his mother needed was something they could do together. An activity that she enjoyed doing with him. When they found photography, that was their way of relating and communicating. I think this speaks to the importance of having meaning in your life, from hobbies or relationships or building skills. In addition, I think this also helps illustrate how healthy creative endeavors are in older age.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-cyan-bluish-gray-color has-text-color\">Source: https:\/\/www.ted.com\/talks\/tony_luciani_a_mother_and_son_s_photographic_journey_through_dementia<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Tony Luciani | TEDxCambridge&nbsp;|&nbsp;May 2018 I practiced my newfound camera skills with Mom as portrait model.&nbsp;Through all of this, she talked, and I listened.&nbsp;She&#8217;d tell me about her early childhood and how she was feeling now.&nbsp;We had each other&#8217;s attention.&nbsp;Mom was losing her short-term memory,&nbsp;but was better recalling her younger years.&nbsp;I&#8217;d ask, and she would [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":5230,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[21],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-5099","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-arts"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/desis.osu.edu\/seniorthesis\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5099","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/desis.osu.edu\/seniorthesis\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/desis.osu.edu\/seniorthesis\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/desis.osu.edu\/seniorthesis\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/25"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/desis.osu.edu\/seniorthesis\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=5099"}],"version-history":[{"count":7,"href":"https:\/\/desis.osu.edu\/seniorthesis\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5099\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":5440,"href":"https:\/\/desis.osu.edu\/seniorthesis\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5099\/revisions\/5440"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/desis.osu.edu\/seniorthesis\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/5230"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/desis.osu.edu\/seniorthesis\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=5099"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/desis.osu.edu\/seniorthesis\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=5099"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/desis.osu.edu\/seniorthesis\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=5099"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}